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(sorry if this turns out to be long il do my best to explain in a nutshell)
Okay,so im getting a little annoyed right now at how my best friend treats guys..
So its like she often wishes how shes in a relationship and wants a boyfriend etc and she ALWAYS attracts theese really lovely lovely guys,but yet she always has to find something wrong with them or a reason not to go out with them she gets bored quickly and messes them about,yet then still complains about not having a boyfriend its like shes oblivous to this.
The most recent guy she told me a few weeks ago how she really liked him,So today we went to the park and he text her and said he would come up to meet her and bring a few friends and she agreed yet when she saw him coming she was like"ugh I dont want to meet up with him" and made me do a detour to avoid them! he texted her then asking whats up she didnt reply,we saw him later down town,she blanks him.
shes not a shy type at all so its not that,she just doesnt know whether shes coming or going.
I don't know what to do because I often get friendly with some of the guys she likes and they always ask me whats the deal should I say it to her?
I don't want to come off jealous,which I will admit I am a little bit that she gets all this male attention and treats the guys like sh*t. people tell me I have a much nicer personality then her and im prettier and all this,yet I cant understand why I cant attract all theese really nice guys that she does?I attract the wrong types!?(which my friend finds funny) is it me?
am I doing something wrong?
should I talk to her about this or let it go.. If so what do I say? I feel like im never going to get a decent guy like all the ones she gets that she turns away
Thanks for any advice sorry if this is long and seems stupid! (link)
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aw i know what you mean.
you can always go for the guys she treats like crap, and she can't get mad at you for it. You just say "if you're not going to give them a chance, why can't i?"
and next time you confront her about it, just say if you trully want a boyfriend you have to treat them with respect, etc.
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Yeah true thank you that makes sense she would tell me she wouldnt care anyway but then if she felt like it she would suddenly have a problem with it, but yeah il do that thanks again.=)
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