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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
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heyy its me again =/ haha the girl with the ex bf problems. i hope you remember me.
so yeah one of my friends that's friends with him and me is having a little get-together thing at her house in a few days and she invited him. this is my first like long-term relationship ex-boyfriend so i don't really know how to play it. i want him to know that i still love him and want him back without acting clingy and stuff it's gonna be all our friends hanging out so i just want to have a good time and hope something happens between us. so my questions are what should i do to let him know i still love him and want to be with him without being all clingy and stuff and should i hug him when i get there? i know i'm gonna be the same girl i was last summer when he fell in love with me but any special tips? as you can probably tell by now i really love this guy and would do anything to get him back. thank you so much.
You cannot go up to him, hug him, and tell him you still love him without appearing clingy. That's very clingy, and there is no way you can do that without appearing so.
If you are both going to be at this party, there is nothing wrong with talking to him. Just ask him how he is, tell him you miss hanging out with him, but keep it casual. Let him know that you do still want him in your life, but don't make a big deal out of it. Keep it simple. If the conversation does somehow become intense, and he seems like he is responding well to what you are saying, then tell him whatever you want to tell him.
Good Luck. :)
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(Rating: 5) thanks..but like about the hugging thing, i hug all of my guy friends so i wouldn't want to like leave him out you know? should i?