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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
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okay so we broke up like a little over a month ago and i've been talking to his sister and she says that he has no social life since we broke up, and he's been being mean to his friends and stuff and he was doing better with me (he had a social life with my friends-guys&girls too but now they kinda don't like him cuz he dumped me). the last month while we were dating he would lie to me and tell me "his mom wouldn't let him go out" or "he had homework" and he never used to do this for like the first 6 months we were together. she says hes lazy but he still likes me. i guess what i'm saying is that i miss who he used to be...we were planning on hanging out when school is over, so my question is, do you think i can get him back the way he used to be during the first 6 months? how? things were perfect last summer and i want them to be this summer too. and please don't tell me to just move on, if worst comes to worst i know that i can. i just want to give this a shot because i do miss who he was. thanks so much. 17/f hes 17.
Regardless of what you do or do not want to me to say, if that's what I feel is right, that's what I am going to tell you. Lucky for you, I don't think you should move on...yet. It's worth giving it at least 1 shot before you give up on the relationship.
You need to talk to him. Tell him what you just told me and that you miss how he used to act. Let him know you still like him, and you miss hanging out with him. Help him remember all the good times you had together, and ask him why he doesn't like doing that stuff anymore. If he doesn't want to change, don't make him. If that's how he wants to live his life, you can't change his mind, and you shouldn't.
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