It's not fair to assume that every boy in the world only wants sex. Maybe they just want to hang out with you!! If you're still uncomfortable with the idea, suggest hanging out in a group. That way, you can hang out without feeling pressured to do anything, and you can decide for yourself if you ever want to hang out alone with him.
When he asks, "When are we hanging out?" try a response like "I'm not sure, when is ____ free?" Make sure the other people are mutual friends; it's no fun to hang out with people you don't know.
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