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Last Update: October 20, 2009
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I met her when I was in my first job... I liked her..she was 4 year elder to me, though it was not a problem, initially we both were friends and then she changed her job and moved to a place where her family was residing.... after a year I also got a job near that place and I went to her home.. it was friendly environment at her home.. and then I realized that I loved her, so told her about my feeling... she responded positively...
I shared everything about me with her and she did the same... but in between she suddenly reduced communication and one day on her B'day I sent a bouquet to her.. and she was angry ... I didn't got why she did so?
She usually speak about her some colleague in her new job and I was worried that if this was reason for her reduced communication.. She told that this is not case and she was busy with her work.... One day I came to know that she told me her very basic thing wrong. her B'day was not on the date she told me...
I was quite annoyed about this thing and I told her, later I came to know from her friend that she usually speaks with her friends that I had made her life hell, and at same time she was communicating with me that she was telling her room partner that "how Good I am"!!!
This was enough for me to stop everything... she was dating some other guy at same time... I was in trauma of emotions ... I didn't got what was my fault....???
its already 3 months now we have not communicated... I came to know that she is dating someone else now... I was really depressed , that why people play with others feeling?? why??
I loved her and given her chances... I did my best for our relationship... Now parents are asking me to marry.... But now I am feeling cheated by her actions and its hard for me to trust any one... what should I do ????
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Just becuase of one wrong thing that happened in life is making you not trust anyone? That's wrong. You should not let one problem in life keep you from trusting anyone or matter of factly liking another girl. I know it will be hard to move on but a girl like her is troule and she knows that. She just toys with guys hearts, in my opinion, her boyfriend is in for some trouble. But hey, you need to move on. You seem like a good guy, so you need to find a good girl that can treat you right, it would be nuts to still think it was your fault or whatever your feeling because to me she is not worth it AT ALL. "don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game" you need to stand up from the horse you just fell off of and find a newer, calmer, nice horse that won't throw you off! Hope I helped
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Its Really Nice ... I want to say thanks friend!!!
It really helped me...
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