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I'm 16 years old and work at a tiny little farmer's market. There's this guy that I work with that just started who's so nice and smart and funny :) Anyway.......
I have such a big crush on him. I was wondering if you think I should go for it, even though I work with him?
It also may be important to note that he's my boss's son.
I just would like some opinions here. Thanks! (link)
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It's great that you're working with someone you really have a crush on because it's easier to get to know them. The problem with being a teenager, and having a boyfriend you have to work with, is that there's more then a 50% chance you're going to break up, because it's normal.
The Con's: He is your boss's son. If you break up you have to ask yourself, what will the boss think? He might not care, then again, he might take it out on you. How awkward would it be if we did break up? Could this affect my job, or performance? How could this effect him? If we are still dating but getting into a fight, and you have to work together that day or the next, will it be hard?
But that's only on the negative!
On the bright side: You might stay dating for the rest of your high school career, and never have to worry about that other stuff. You might get a different job while you're still dating, or if you do break up it will be on mutual terms.
Remember that whatever your choice is, it will be an awesome learning experience for the future. If it takes a turn for the worst, it might not matter. It probably shouldn�t matter; the only problem is it does, because you are in a professional facility.
But also confront him with your feelings and ask him what he feels. What he thinks you guys should do. That might narrow down a few of the possibilities :)
Good Luck!
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Thank you that was good advice =]
I liked how you gave the pros and cons. I think I might actually go for it. I'm on pretty good terms with my boss so I think it might work out. Fingers crossed =]
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