Hi! I live in Chino Hills, California and I came to this site to see if I can help anyone who needs it. I am 15 years old and am known in my group of friends as the "voice of reason" :)
I want to try to help as many people as I possibly can. I hope someone can find my advice helpful, although I know some will disagree--and that's totally fine.
I always tell people that I give advice to that I'm just a person who makes mistakes so before they consider my advice they should make sure they agree with it. They should also make sure it's the best thing for them to do.
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okay heres the point. i want out of my house. its not that i dont want to live with my parents, its the fact that i cant take the stress of living with them anymore. they do a lot of things that bother me. and its making me want to hurt myself. i know your going to say talk to them. work things out. but everytime i try to talk to my parents and work things out they dont want to agree on any solution that works for all of us. a few weeks ago it got to the point were i overdosed on some medicine and was in the hospital for a couple days. and today i came so close to cutting myself because i cant take this anymore. they are supposed to be setting up councling for me but still have yet to do that. i cant take it anymore. and every single day i cry because i cant take the stress of living here anymore. :(
so does anyone know anyways i can get out of my house. maybe go live with a realitive or friend.
please please do NOT try and tell me to work things out with my parents. ive tried it. it did NOT work. and please dont tell me to wait it out. ive waited to long and i cant take it. please please please anyone help.
please and thank you.
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Listen, i am the same age as you AND the same gender and i recently went through the same exact thing that you are going through. I know exactly what you are going through, and i still feel that way at moments. I also know talking to unreasonable parents doesnt solve anything either. One thing got me through it. I know it will work for you if you try it and stay open minded. Don't hurt yourself, it is just putting more stress on you and your parents and making matters worse. I know it is hard, but you need to be strong. Call a relative. A friend. Maybe you can stay with them for a while. But if you really want to know what got ME through this, inbox me.
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