Member Since: April 26, 2009
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Last Update: April 26, 2009
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Ok... I basically just led some guy on... I met him on myspace and he added me because he was just adding random people and I live in the same town as him. Well I always talk to everyone who adds me... I don't like adding people as friends until I at least have one conversation with them. So we started talking and all and he was nice and then we were texting. Today is saturday and we've only been texting since about tuesday. Apparently I'm his girlfriend now :/ I'm sooo confused because I told him I didn't want him to call me his girlfriend yet because I had only agreed to go on ONE date just to MEET him. I told him I'd just gotten out of a bad relationship and everything and he said he understood and would wait and stuff. Then he started being really sweet and he put up on his myspace how I make him happy and stuff :/ I didn't want to seem mean so I did the same. Yeah I know, I'm stupid to have done that... So now, after the "date" which was TERRIBLE because I'm really shy and so was he, he thinks we're boyfriend and girlfriend??? :/ I mean... I didn't tell him the date was terrible... I actually told him it was amazing -_- he asked me to my face how it went for me and I panicked... so yeah I've basically led this poor guy on and I DON'T WANT TO DATE HIM. I'm pretty much avoiding him right now. He doesn't go to my school so the only way I'd ever see him is if him and I planned a date or something... but I just really don't like being supposedly taken :/ I hate getting boyfriends because I seriously suck at committing... please help me :( I know I should have just told him the truth and not encouraging him by returning his sweetness... but I just really don't want to date anyone right now :/ plus he's like 17 which is about 3 years older then me because I JUST turned 15 about a week ago. I feel really bad :( help please? (link)
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yes, the age doesn't matter, but the relationship between you and him is importnt.
you should've told him the truth on how you feel, because it will just continue giving you problems and will make you become more problemtic just about a guy that doesn't know your true feelings. If he disagrees with your opinion, then find another guy that will understand you. And dont just go adding random people on MySpace, because it could be dangerous at times, like for example, that guy you are chatting with might be innocent when chatting with you on tagged, but whn he decides to meet you in person, you might not know he is a murderer. Not all people are good, and that might just happen to you the next time you do it. So better be careful with your desicions.
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oh uh sorry we already met... but yeah thanks anyway!
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