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Hey everyone. My name is Rachel, and I am fourteen, fifteen in June. I need help. Well, I have a HUGE crush on a guy at school. He's incredibly handsome, and hilarious. (My two need-haves, when it comes to guys.) But, here’s the problem. I'm a freshman he's a junior. He's 17 in May. It's not a problem for me, and he has a few Ex's in my grade, so it's not a problem for him either. But my mom is a whole other story. Well, I had transferred to my school at the beginning of the school year, and my mom had casually asked if I had any boys on the brain. I told her about... Well let's call him "T", and she said, "Well, you know he's too old for you, right?" I had no reply to that. That made me a little mad. I mean technically there's only a year in between us. ALSO, my mom and dad are married, and my mom is 42, my dad 48. Don't you think that's kind of hypocritical? I mean, I'm not being disrespectful, or I don't mean to be anyway, but I don't think that's very fair. If you ask me, I don't think T and I have that big of an age difference. But, if mommy says, Rachel does. If she tells me I can't date him, I won't, no questions asked. But if I convinced her otherwise and she said I could, I'd be content in doing so. So, lying and sneaking around is absolutely out of the question. But, I need a few tips on how to convince her that the difference isn't that large. Any ideas? Or even if you think the difference is big, give your opinion please! I will not judge or anything. Any advice will be accepted. Thanks~! J (link)
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i think your mom is just scared of the guy, that he, been older, might be thinking about other things and that you are too jung to be exposed to those things, it's just your mom been your mom. So, what you need to do is just talk to her, say you like the guy, mention his good cualities, what you like about him, tell her that your not even sure your gonna date him, just are gonna get to know him better. I really don't think that the difference is that much, actually been with a guy older is better, really, normaly they are more madure and kind of valorate you better. Talk more to the guy, get to know him better and talk to your mom, and if things get seriously then bring the guy home so your mom get to know him better and then she would see that the age is not a problem. Hope this help you!
Malu.
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Thanks for the advice! You helped a bunch.
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