i'm just a person who likes to help. i really don't know much about life, i think only really knoe about it after you have live it, but i believe i actually know at least some things and i have a very good point of view. Besides, i always try to help evrybody and don't care what they've done..so fell free to ask anything and i promise do to my best to answer as honest as i can
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ok i need serious help. I'm in love with my boyfriend, but the way he's acting is ridiculous.
the other night someone told him that i had started smoking again, he fliped and took my ciggarettes and then yelled at me for not coming to him first. He is so convinced that i'm going to cheat on him with one of my brothers friends that he had a panic attack that put him in the hospital. He wont let me go around my bro. and he is constantly reminding me of how i started smoking behind his back. He told someone behind my back that i dress like a slut around other people(a turtle neck is slutty to him). He went through my fone and called eveyone who txted me!
Thats just the bad though.
i absolutley adore him. i'm in love with him. He's always calling just to say i love you and he always makes sure im comfortable.
but apparently the way he's treating me has caused my best friend to stop talking to me until i leave him because my BFF is tired of me being treated like this.
What should i do!?
PLLLEEEAAASSSEEE HEELLLLP ASAP
Thank you
Love always ~heather (link)
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ok, that's just TOO much, really!
i get the fact that you love him, that the makes you feel so secure and all, but still, he doesn't let u LIVE!! this is definitly a trust essue, and the trust takes time, but even thought the realtionship is new, he shouldn't be like that, i mean, don't letting you been with your brother or his friends because he thinks you, maybe, are gonna cheat on him, calling everyone that texts you?? TOO MUCH the smoking thing is just and excuse, to make u feel bad, really, so you started smoking and didn't tell him, ok, your bad, but that should be in the past.
i get that you love him, but you need to put some boundaries, like i said, he doesn't let you live your life, you need some space, or things are gonna get uglier, because jealous boyfriends, don't matter how much he might love you, they could use jealously as an excuse to do something worse. just be carefull, try to talk to him and if he doesn't REALLY change, if you really don't see change, yeah, break up with him, while it still is a nice memory. Hope this helps you!
Malu
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