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This is more a question for the ladies, but men are perfectly welcome to answer it too.
I'm a guy (obviously) and I've had long hair since I was about 17 or so (I'm 23 now). From a personal standpoint I like having long hair but I'm beginning to wonder if people see something different than what I really am when they look at me. This is especially true of the women I've dated. I seem to attract the type of women who are the complete opposite of me. Myself I'm fairly deep into the conservative side of things, I'm religious, etc... But my exes, who were attracted to guys with long hair, were almost my complete opposites on many views which eventually resulted in break-ups. I've been called a "hippie" and a few other things when I'm actually a very conservative soul.
So I guess my questions are... Do some women (possibly the ones that I would like to be with) take guys with long hair seriously? What is your first impression about the personality of a long haired guy? Do we all seem like flippant elf-boys on first glance?
I'm looking for honest opinions, not what you "THINK you'd think" but rather what you really do think if that makes any sense. And if you find this topic funny, feel free to laugh, as I am laughing right now when writing it. Also, sorry if this is in the wrong category, but I couldn't think of a better one, even the relationship category.
Well its really sad but a lot of people stereotype really easily, and it depends on how you dress on my opinion of you but it i see a guy with long hair right jeans band t's and everything im like "oh hes a hard rocker, lazy smoker kind of a guy." If that makes any sense. But i would not expect a guy with long hair to be religious and conservative, its just not how we look at long haired people. We meet one person with long hair and expect you to all be the same. It really sad but its what everyone does. It is harder to take longer haired people seriously becuase they mostly like i described in the beginning, not someone that is looking for a serious relationship or someone that is conservative. Hope i helped =] Good luck!
(Rating: 4) Thank you for your answer. I know my situation is a tad strange and a contrast of beliefs vs. looks.