I want to give people my advise, and i hope it will help them and give them a better view on there problems. xx
Gender: Female
Location: Scotland
Member Since: March 1, 2009
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Last Update: June 29, 2009
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I have this guy. I fell in love with him the first day i meet him. I was dating his cousin then but coudlnt get him off my mind. we have only been dating a week now. but see he has a rough past couple kids. he dont know about you. you know? well he had a daughter. never meet her or anything because the mother wouldnt let him see her. his daughter was two got killed in a car accident yesterday and was killed by a drunk driver. we are "taking a break" i was raped a few weeks ago and a car accident a few days ago.. our break started after his cousin was lieing to him about me because he found out we were dating and didnt like it then he found out about his daughter. it hit all at once. well this morning we meet up and it was akward i gave him a hug and i started crying. i cryed the whole way home. his uncle told me he cried to. i had also wrote him a note telling him about why i liked him and how i feel him love with him the day i meet him. and how i would always be here for him no matter what. he cried to. i went with him tonight just driving dirt roads. and had a good time. i keep asking him whhat he was thinking about he told me he was thinking about something he and i had done a few nights ago and i got upset because i didnt expect him to say that. we didnt really talk after that he got mad because i chewed a piece of gum (im allergic to gum) but i need to chew it to relax me. i spit it out before my throat closes. any ways i really love him and i just dont know how to help him through this. and i dont want to lose him. (link)
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wow, might i say what a moving story, i truly feel for you!
sounds like you really love this guy but i think he has a lot on his mind and needs some space to get his head around things and mourn for his daughter, your other option is to offer him a sholder to cry on and say you will always be there when hes down. also your going through a lot so this love would start off bad, which cant end well,if you love someone you have to set them free sometimes, if its ment to be wait for him to get into a better frame of mind
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thank you for your advice. hes dealing by working on cars (kinda helping but i think hes just ignoring his feelings right now) but im going to visit my mother for a week 700 some odd miles away so where going to see how that goes being away giving a big amount of space and time to think. thank you
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