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Okay...this will be long.
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It first started one day when I went to my friend Matt's picture section on Myspace. Well...I was looking at a photo and I looked down at the comments... I saw my name mentioned it one...so I read it... apparently it was his sister or friend...I don't know. Well...she was saying all types of mean things about me. She said I was a stalker..( because I liked him...I don't really after all this stuff happend.) that I was ugly that I need to stop calling him( I called him once..and that's it)she was gonna get my number from him and cuss me out... she said she was gonna tell him that he died the next time I would call. She said she was going to beat me up. Well...my friend told her off. Well..I was so mad because why didn't he stick up for me?I didn't know why he didn't delete the comment. Now..all his friends think I am a stalker. It really hurt me.. I cried for an hour. :/
Okay...(just to say it Andrea and matt are in 8th grade...Shalia and I are in 7th) now... that was a few weeks ago.
Now..he has a girl friend named Andrea..and she cussed out my friend Shalia and told her to stay away from Matt...for NO reason!! She told everyone untrue things...saying that Shalia called HER all the things that she called Shalia. Matt told Shalia to shut up and leave andrea alone...she told lies to him. Now...he's making fun of shalia...and I think me to...but he hasn't really acted like it, so i don't know!!..and were getting sick of it. I asked Matt in a myspace message whats up with all this. Now I am waiting to see what he has to say. What do you people think of this?? Like.. I like him...still and I can't believe I still do because he's such a jurk!! He told me I only like him for his looks and thats absolutly not true but he won't believe it I tryed to explain but he just doesn't understand. His girl friend made fun of him..before they went out and I don't thinks he knows that but I am not going to tell him that. So.. we had a dance yesterday...he just sat with Andrea most of the time. Like...when she got up and left him to dance and stuff.my friends told me he was watching me ...dance and everything.( we had a real good time even though they were being betchy...there not gonna bring are mood down) He and his friends were playing...and twisting each others legs..lol I don't know...but I like looked at him he catched me looking at blushed and stopped...lol I don't know if he did or not but...can someone please give me some advice with all this...it's really making me upset . Do you think he has any feelings for me? Sorry it's so long!!!
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I'm going to try to help here but more in general that the question you have up. You're young and there is nothing wrong at all with young. You're going to feel things for guys and they are simply going to act silly. They may like you one day. they may hate you the next. They may be nice to you until their friends come around then act differently. Your age is difficult. You feel things strongly and you will want to be around certain guys. Guys will be mean even if they like you sometimes. It hurts. I know it does. Then you have people that say things. One person says soemthing and it ends up all over the school. It's a very tough time to let your guard down. Don't worry about having a boyfriend or anything right now. Just let this time be a time to maybe have a boy come over to have dinner with your family and maybe watch movies. Keep things simpler and more friend like. Relationships come and go very fast at this age. People will date for a week then break up. It's more like a show than a real relationship. If things are meant to be more than friendship itwill happen. But by just being friends it takes the pressure off. It also allows you to say "we're just friends" if someone calls you a stalker. This guy you like does sound immature and if he likes you it seems he's uncomfy saying so. Don't feel the need that you have to be with one guy. Just get to be friends with a number of guys and then if a few of them like you then you have your pick. If you only like one then the whole world rests on whether or not they like you. It's a recipe for heartbreak. No guy is worth your tears.
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