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[16/f] I can’t seem to get any pleasure out of masturbating. I touch my clit in various ways but it doesn’t really feel like anything special. Is there something wrong with me? (link)
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There probably isn't anything wrong with you. There a lot of variables here that could be affecting things here. First, medications can affect how sensitive someone is. If there is some medication that you take regularly that could possibly be the root of this. You may want to just try something else. Without getting into any kind of details, I'd suggest taking a warm- hot bath prior to any stimulation. The warm water would allow more blood flow to the vital areas. That should help a bit with sensitivity. Plus while in there, you can use a showerhead (movable) to stimulate yourself. Many women do this, especially when younger. To be turned on the brain has to be involved as well. If you have a hard time of thinking up something sexy or appealing to you then consider reading some sexy scene from an erotic novel while in there. It should add to the experience. I'd also say to be patient and not rush things. If you go into it clenching your fists, stressed and expecting instant results, then you may just be putting too much pressure on yourself. This stuff is usually like a slow building fire. At first it doesn't seem like much and after some time it is something. If you are on medication, you may have to consult the doctor and see if there are alternatives to what you are taking. If by some chance you aren't on any medications, there are a number of sites specializing on masturbation techniques that are submitted by users. That may help you with the mechanics. But at the moment, there isn't anything to worry about. There isn't anything to panic about. It would be frustrating for anyone. But letting yorself be too stressed will make it a bit harder for you. Let yorself relax then when the time is right just go with the flow.
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Thank you! This was really helpful. I had no idea about the medications thing, and I actually do take ADHD pills everyday.
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