Hey I am 16 and believe it or not I have a lot of experince in giving advice.
So let me know if I can help and I will do my best.
Gender: Male
Location: US
Age: 16
Member Since: March 21, 2009
Answers: 97
Last Update: April 29, 2009
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Okay so my boyfriend of a year and 1/2 has cheated on me twice and it took me a long time but im starting to trust him again. Well a while ago his best friend kissed me but it wasnt my fault it was like a 2 second peck and i had no idea he was going to do it plus i told my boyfriend right after it happened. Well my boyfriend told me that i had to stop talking to him and i understood and i did. then my boyfriend didnt like my best guy friend ( we've been friends since 5th grade (im now in 10th)) and he made me stop hanging out with him. Well the other night we got into a fight and he told me that he didnt trust me and he goes through my myspace all the time and he has people watch me and then he got on here and was at my home page and asked me why i put on here that i liked someone else and i was like what the heck are you talking about??? and he called me a liar to my face then i got on and found out he was reading a question that someone had wrote to me and ugghhhh! im so frustrated ive never ever gone through his stuff ever and hes cheated on me!!!! HELP!!! what do i do???? sorry this is so long i just need help! Thanks in advance. (link)
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Well first off you SHOULDN'T have taken him back. No guy is worth your time if he cheats on you once but twice he should have learned the first time. Your too nice of a gift for him to cheat on you twice. But anyway you shouldn't let him tell you who you are going to hang out with. If you let him break a friendship that is 5 years long then you have let him have to much control. Thats one thing you shouldn't let him control is you friendships. What you should do is tell him to never talk to you again. You seem to be a person of princpal and you shouldn't take that from him. You should get back with your old friend and tell him to leave you alone he isn't worth your time.
Good Luck!
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THats a little harsh to do after a year and 1/2 but thanks =]
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