Member Since: April 29, 2009
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Last Update: April 29, 2009
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I broke up with my boyfriend two nights ago. We had been together for 5 months. He told me he was beginning to fall in love with me. He is the Perfect boyfriend. I felt completely comfortable when i was around him, he made me laugh, smile-at my worst, he was the best listener, we could talk about everything and anything, he got along Perfectly with my family and sibilings, there is Nothing wrong wit him. and yet. after 5 months, i didnt feel emotionally attached to him. i want to so badly. i wish i could with everything in me. and realizing that he was falling in love and i wasnt close to it at all made me feel miserable.i know it was the right thing to do. iknow i was hurting him so much more by being with him and not feeling emotionally attached. but i feel miserable! ive felt so crappy every since we broke up. i feel this constant tightness in my chest. and i keep having him in my dreams all night long. all of my friends kept telling me over and over to do it and that i needed to have the guts to do it. and now that i have i feel terrible. and i miss him. well i dont miss Him but i miss talking to him, and constantly having him around. what can i do??? all of my dreams are about giving it more time. is 5 months enou???. please help. i cant stand this miserable feeling any longer! (link)
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i dnt knw how else to reply on this thing, neways thanks alot for the help :). hope it works out for u both :) take care
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welllll i took all the advice this colomn gave me, but u know what at the end of the day its really all up to u. and wellll i gave it another shot w him. two days ago we celebrated 6 months of being together and things are going reallyy well. im not giving u the go- at giving ur relationship another try. but i was just reallyy miserable w.out him. i mean im still not IN love w him.. and i know he is, but the fact that i'm a lot happier w him now helps me believe that one day, maybe not soon, but one day i will be in love with him. its hard for even you to know what to do but in my case it thankfully worked out quite well. i really do wish u the best, i mean i know exactly what ur going through and what you are feeling and it was one of the most depressing times for me. think about this tho; if he were to say to you "listen i cant talk to u anymore for alongg time because talking to u causes me to fall more in love w u and i just cant keep doing this to myself knowing that you wont ever date me again" what would u do? would u understand and let thigs be and finally move on? or would u not be able to let him walk away like that and would rather give ur relationship another chance? I mean that is assuming u two still talk. Also what is he saying about it? is he begging for another try to ur relationship or is he giving u ur space 100% and trying to move on? you just have to weight all of ur personal factors. another reason i gave him another try was because i was so fearful that if i didnt i would regret it. if u give it another chance and it fails once again u both know you tried. no one else can tell u what to do. you really have to face ur relationship and make the most prudent decision. I really hope for the best in ur relationship! if u have any further question idk how u can get in touch with me because i dont really know this website but i really hope this helped!
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