Member Since: April 1, 2009
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15/f
Hi, me and my boyfriend 16/m have been together for 11 months (a year in 2 weeks). But now I dont know if I can even make it to a year. When we first got together everything was great, but I guess that's how it is in most cases. He started to change a little over summer break. Now, it's even worse. I just feel like he lusts me now, and I really don't like it. I told him that I'm not into anything sexual until I'm married (or at lest old enough to know what I'm doing), but he just doesn't seem to get that. He always talks about other girls, he says it's just to make me jealous, I told him that doesn't work on me anymore. He rarely calls me unless I beg him to. He always busy, it seems like he loves his computer more than me. I mean, how can I lose to an inanimate object!? I always seem to do everything I can think of to make him happy, but he just doesn't get it. I guess I've changed too. I used to never cry, he used to make me really happy, and now it seems like everytime I talk to him via. phone, I ALWAYS cry. I've gotten more... naive, confused, and I just feel like I lost all respect for myself. I feel if I just get away from him and focus on myself I can regain my self respect. Now, the thing is, I don't know how to break it to him lol. Now, that I typed this out I see how bad it really was. Could anyone give me some advice?
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Ah, a classic problem. Don't feel down about it, this sort of thing always happens with girls your age. Get you courage up and talk to him about it. However, if you don't think you can keep yourself together, simply leave it. In other words, ignore him. It is quite clear that he does not really care about you. In all honesty, such things should be expected at that age. On the other hand, it is entirely possible that he's simply got a case of raging hormones. Sometimes, teenage boys feel a potent need to act/be more manly than they really are. In most cases, this need is sex. If this is the case, he will grow out of it in due time. However, it is your decision as to whether or not you're willing to take that chance and wait it out. That is a decision you'll have to make on your own. I hope I've helped.
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Yeah, he's got raging hormones, that's for sure. i dont think I'll be sticking around though. Thank you for the advice.
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