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I am a hard working mother. 23 years old and living each day as if it were the most precious day ever.

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for me getting guys has never been a problem, the problem is they always screw me over. every guy i go for, no matter how different they may seem they usually turn out to be worse than the last. ive been through sheer hell in the relationship department and have felt like giving up but as sad as it is, i really do need a man to feel happy. i dont know why, or if thats pathetic, but i am not happy alone. i never feel good enough for anyone and each relationship results in my ego becomming lower and lower. i honestly have no idea what i do wrong. i try very hard not to be annoying, i stay in shape, i try and do nice things for them, and i try to take things slow sexually. im good at sexual acts so my problem is not that i dont know what im doing physically, but emotionally rather. i used to believe it was the guys but now im beginning to question, is it me? and why doesnt anyone actually like me? why do they all just want to use me? why is everyone capable of getting into amazing and functional relationships and im not. if you have any advice please let me know. i would like to know how i can become more of a relationship person, and how to detect if a guy is just looking to use me.

Some times guys can pick up on a "needy" type behavior. Regaurdless of your body type or amazing bedroom capabilities. So if you HAVE to be in a relationship I am willing to wager that they are picking up on that vibe.

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(Rating: 4) I'm honestly not a needy person at all. nor at all desperate. and I'm a virgin. I didn't mean to imply I'm some tramp or anything.
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