I met this really nice guy (lets call him warren) almost 5 days ago. We met at a bowling alley and I actually kinda liked his friend (Luke)- however when I found out that I was 4 years older than Luke, I knew that wouldnt ever happen because it would be illegal because he was 14 and im 18... so thats a negative. Well, Warren, Luke's friend, ended up letting me stay at his house for the night because it was too late for me to get back to my house. Warren hit on me, and then we started kissing, and well, one thing led to another. THEN, after that happened we were just talking and I found out he is my best friends cousin. I told her about me and warren hanging out and when i did she was like "Please tell me you arent messing with him." I told her i wasnt, but that i was becoming pretty close to him (which is true). I dont know what it is about him though. We are complete opposites. Im more of a voluptous girl, while he is skinny, im in high school, he is graduated, he is country, and I am proper. However the connection we have is hard to ignore; physically and emotionally. He said to me, "I bet you $100.00 that you will fall in love with me." and of course I denied it. I cant tell if by saying that he is wanting to start dating me or not. But based on the situation do you think that I should pursue the relationship or let it diminish? I just wanted an honest opinion.
madison
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Hey Madison :)
Ohhh thats a tough situation. I'll give you my honest oppinion from an outside perspective. He sort of sounds like a player. From his cousin's reaction and immediate disaproval and from his "bet" it seems he is pretty cocky. Confidence/cockiness can be very attractive (those are the types of guys I typicially go for) but they can be heart breakers if you're not careful. If I were you, I would not let it go since you seem to have a strong connection with the guy. I would see where it leads but not presue it too strong. Go with the flow that way you don't get too attached if something does go wrong.
Gooood luck! I hope things do work out
Hailey
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LOl yeahh tell me about it being tough. But i appreciate your advice! I will take it under wingg. =]
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