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My ex and I broke up thursday 3/5 that night.. He had been talking to someone with a strange number. first told me he didnt know who it was then it was an old buddy well i found out it was a girl. he had keep asking me if i worked sunday what time was i planning on coming home for lunch etc. well i started having a gut feeling looked at his phone cut him cheating on me. and i left him the next day. I really loved this guy. i had to work the night i left. started crying at work.. i guy i talked to way before i meet my ex we started talking again.. I had strong feelings for him. the only thing we werent sure about was age. but we are okay with it. even when i dated my ex i still though about him. and i had to stop talking to him when i dated my ex (he was controling) last few nights i have been going to my friends watching movies holding each other and he gave me a back massage and i kissed him them turned into making out and then more. i dont feel bad about it.. i loved it and has made me like my friend alot lot more. and i havent been thinking about my ex.. is it wrong?? is it to soon for me?? how do you know... also i have a two year old who was attached to my ex. hes a little confussed on why we left.

i don't think that's wrong. it's good that you're getting over it fast. i think you may just be replacing your ex with this new guy though. like he's just filling your ex's place. which isn't really a good thing, but for now if it's making you feel better then it's fine. just make sure that this new guy is one that you want to be with. tell your 2 year old that people get in fights sometimes and they decide they don't want to live together anymore. just tell him that you and your ex are still friends, you just aren't the kind of friends that live together. just think about this: if you didn't have this new guy would you feel bad about your ex? like would you still be thinking about him? if the answer is yes, you might want to reconsider your situation. i also think you should have a talk with your ex. confront him about his cheating and ask him to explain himself. good luck =)

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(Rating: 5) i asked him all he says is he is sorry he doesnt know why he did it. that he was talking to her about me. (she didnt know we were dating let alone lived together and told me she didnt plan on having these kind of feelings for him) so i assume he obviously told her something.. and the text messages were i miss you and mwaahh
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