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Alright, I am 13/f and he is 14/m. To be blunt, I am CRAZY about him, but I can never tell how he feels about me. Sometimes I feel like he's truely into me, but other times its just confusing. Sometimes its like we are just friends. Sometimes its like we are pretty much a couple that isn't dating. And then there are times when I feel like he's just playing with me. Not the kind of playing where its like, flirt with you then go off and flirt with another girl, no, not at all. Haha, actually, I think I'm the only girl he talks to on a regular basis. Anyway, the kind of playing I'm talking about is the mess with your emotions. Its where i think he only talks to me because he is bored, or he gets a laugh out of teasing and messing with me. It seems like everytime I snap out of my lovidoviness to confront him about our little relationship-rollercoastet, he develops an uncanny ability to sweet talk me, make me adore him, and confuse me more before I even get an answer, because of this, I never know where we stand on the relationship scale. He says he doesn't want a girlfriend right now but sometimes it feels like we might as well be dating! He gets kind of protective of me when other boys get a little carried away with their pervertedness. And it sometimes feels like he gets a little jelous when I talk about other boys. But then other times it feels like he doesn't even care about me! My main questions are:
1. How is he so good at keeping me confused?
2. Is he trying to keep me confused? Or am I just imagining it?3. If he is trying to confuse me, why would he do that? If he isn't trying to confuse me, then what is he doing?
4. How can I be SNEAKY to find out how he REALLY feels about me without him knowing that I am?
5. Is this all just a game to him???

Yes it is a game to him for several reasons and I'm not going to lie to to you I will however make this as brief as possible

He thinks its a game becauase he says he doesnt want a girlfriend rite now yet he DOES PLAY like her cares for u when he really doesnt
I know he doesnt care for you because if he did, than he would allow you to date him
He is justing playing the role and that is what makes you confused
Dont fall for it the only reason he plays like he's jealous when other guys talk about you is because he's mad he knows he can have you but he doesnt want you he's just playing the role like i said
dont fall for it any longer
if u wanna find out if he really cares about you or not
determine an ultimatum meaning tell him that if he cares for you than you guys should date and if he still denies to date u, than tell him your moving on, if he tries and stop you and changes his mind to date you thasn he cares about you, if he lets you go and does not change his mind to date you than he was jus playin with your emotions

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(Rating: 5) Thanks! But I am a little confused by your answer. What do you mean by "playing the role"? Also I can't see your reasoning behind why you think he gets jelous and protective, I understand everything else. Thanks for the advice!!
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