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Omg okay! Me and my boyfriend has been off and on for almost two years. .We've broken up and started to see other people! During that time i had sex with this guy whom i had no feelings for but he made me feel wanted at the time soo anyways i was drunk and when i made him stop(like seriously a minute after we started) the condom broke! I tried to be responsible and get the plan B pill and get checked and they said everything was okay! Later me and my boyfriend got back other and i wanted to tell him bout that night so bad but i was so scared of losing him cause i always seem to mess stuff up or do things that could cause me to leave him! I recently went to the doctor to get on birth control and they took all types of test. Well on monday i received a call for them saying that i tested positive for chlamydia. .my heart dropped! I wasnt upset because i had it cause i mean i did the stupid stuff so i was willing to pay for it but i knew for a fact that my boyfriend had it too! I wrote him as soon as i found out and told him that we needed to talk face to face! He came over that night and we drove around as i tried to find out how to tell him. .finally it all came out after a hour or two and just as i suspected he was furious!! Before i told him i made him promise that he will stay over my house that night and he did! I took my pills for it before he came and i had his pill in the car for him! We had the most weird night ever! He hated me i know it but when we i start crying in the house he came over to me and hugged me sooo tight! That night was weird and so was that morning. .He got mad again and started yelling and crying then he decided he was going to stay with me and everything was good after that. .well i thought so! That same night it happened again. .the crying that is but we made up again! That morning it was like the stuff never happened he was happy. I was happy and we played around all day until we start talking about me going to college than that when it all blew up! He cried and i cried more than ever cause he couldnt help but to think about it! I told him that he should leave and find someone that makes him happy and all he could say was that im the only person. .that i all he got and want! After about an hour or two of crying and trying to find out if he was going to stay or leave he that he will stay and that he ment it! That he wanted us to have the family we always planned on and he know if he left that the tears wouldnt stop! Our tears dried and we laughed and played til i took him home but when we were leaving he seemed kind of mad idk if its because of what he was doing on the computer of if its cause he was thinking about it again! Long story huh. .Well my question is Is he going to leave me? Well the pain go away soon? Can we still be together and be happy after this or is our relationship just a timed bomb? PLEASE HELP! I CANT LOSE HIM!!

Thanks in advance!

well first he needs to see a doctor still.

You need to give him his space to sort this out in his head.

Chlamydia is curable so thats a good thing.
but if i were him i would be asking .. how did u get it.

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