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well me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago, we still talk and stuff. but we haven't seen each other ever since the break up.. and I miss him like crazy, and so does he.. and ever since we broke up he's been acting different.. he told me he feels like his concious left meaning he doesn't care for anything or anyone.. and even his mom doesn't like it WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?.. my brother told me its probably because of you guys, cause you guys had to break up from the situation (we had to break up because I'm moving to pennsylvania, and he's going to iraq in may) and I think my brothers right of why he is acting like that but I don't know.. I miss him like crazy.. and main reason I need help is because should I just meet up with him or come over his house? because I get to scared if I invite myself over and if he doesn't want me over I'll feel stupid =\... he calls me like at 1am most of the time just to talk to me haha, he's crazy ;).
so I don't know help me out! what should I do, what should I say? anything!
Please help!
thankkss xoxo. (link)
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Hi,
You told us , how long you guys broke up, but not how long you guys was together.
But anyway, this is from a guy point of view.
He is going to Iraq in May, that says it all to me and it should have been very clear to you too.
He is trying to minimaze your/and his feelings by breaking up with you in advance, you see a guy needs clearity most of the time of absents, that their girl, will not cheat or leave them when they are not present or in the same country.
I think that you now understand what you need to do in other to keep him or let him go his way.
If you love is meant to be now you know what to say or do to keep it.
So Good luck in doing so and let us know what the update is on this issue
Love is only love when you love love it self
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hey, well we were together for about 2months (yeah I know not that long) but we've known each other for about 2 years. And when we started talking to each other, wow I honeslty never felt like this before, we connected so quickly, we've gotten so close to each other, it was amazing! The reason why we broke up is because of the situation were in (you know already haha) because we don't want to get hurt in the long wrong, we've gotten so attached to each other, we just don't want it to kill us more when he leaves to Iraq and when I move. So its bad timing for us =\. I know that maybe its not right for us now, maybe in the future who knows.. but just the fact that I can't stand not being with him but its for the best.. and yeah your right, he is scared that I'll cheat on him when he's away or something, but I NEVER cheated on my boyfriends, I'm not tha kind of girl, and he knows that.. its because he got hurt when he went away.. and I understand how he feels because I've been hurt too.. and that's probably the other reason why we broke up.. we talk to each other almost everday, and I love talking to him, but I don't know what to do, I want to tell him that I miss and stuff but I feel like there's no point in saying that because it won't make a difference.. And I know he misses me to like crazy because my friend hannah told me he does, but he's upset because it has to be for the best.. I don't know... what to do about this, its so difficult..
My brother told me if you don't tell him you'll regret it in the long run.. is he right? I don't know =\
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