i like to help people give advice. I dont claim to know everything and all answers rather show others a path to follow and share wisdom IM LIKE THE HITCH OF ADVICENATORS I CAN ANSWER BUT CANT DO IT MYSELF SO HELP ME TOO I love football and skating. The way I analyis things is to see the problem break it down and find all the solutions then pick the best one. Or ill just go on gut feeling sometimes :p its okay the advice is what you make it some times you have to give answers but sometimes you have to help people by also not clouding their jugdement and leaving fate in their hands unless its for the best. If someone says should I kill myself you better convince them what's right to do .=] lol
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So my boyfriend of six months and I got into a bit of an arguement yesterday. Basically, things have been weird for a month (don't talk as much, he doesn't seem as interested), and I've been really blah for the past few days. I flat out asked him if he was still as interested, and he said "Idk. Not really." (This was all over text because we couldn't hang out or anything).
After having to baby the information out of him, he basically said he's felt that way for a month, because I always seem pessimistic, and he's just not as interested. Plus I get annoyed whenever he mentions games. (Hah, which I can admit, I did, because he played them so much we didn't even talk much). I kept asking him what it meant for us now, and what I can do to fix it, and all he did was say stuff like "idk". So obviously, I was very upset. I kept telling him about how I didn't wnat to lose him and stuff, and then this morning, I didn't even talk to him. (In my defense, I had to study for mid-terms, but I also didn't relaly want to talk and make him more angry).
So, today after I finished my second midterm and was getting ready to go to my bus, he was standing outside of my class with my other friend. So they were joking around about stuff as we were all walking, so I started joking too, and then once we got outside, he grabbed my hand. Once we got to the bus, he kissed me, said he loved me, and said "Sorry for last night".
Obviously, I'm hesitant, but I'm happy. I know, it's stupid, and I should try to fix the problem, but at this point I just want to pretend everything's okay. So, yesterday he kind of made a good point in saying that we text too much, so when we're together it's not as special. First, would ya'll agree with this? Also, what are some things I can do in person (Primairily at school) to help us both have some fun?
Mehh.
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i know where your standing as a guy it sounds like he doesnt know what he wants and too much textin is bad. If you wanna start having fun actually see each other, hold each other but right now it seems unstable and its gonna keep falling and getting up. try fixing it. personally that cycle isnt much fun
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