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Hello. I am Alice.
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Location: Columbus
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Age: 15
Member Since: January 10, 2009
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My ex boyfriend is trying to get back with me. However he doesnt know I have another bf already nobody really knows about him except for my really close friends because I didnt want any gossip, drama, and my mom doesnt like him that much (she doesnt really like anybody that much). However, I found out that he asked one of my really good friends to be his girlfriend as well. I talked to him about it and he admitted it. He said that me and her are both beautiful and that he likes her a lot but he really loves me and that he didnt want to be alone and anyways he knew that she was going to say no. This sounds kind off like player to me but he denies it...I feel kind off like....okay so im your back up plan? no it doesnt work that way... he got mad when I told him what I thought...and i dated him for 5 months and know he´s a good guy. Lately a lot of my "friends" true faces came up...so I dont really know what to think... am I right to think that he´s just playing with me....and that...hes and idiot? in my eyes hes trying to get together with two girls since one was obviously going to say no then theres the back up one....Im nobody´s backup...and i have someone who loves me and truly cares about me....what should I say? am I right to think this way? Im 17 female... (link)
I think your right. Just tell him you have somebody better and that you don't want to be anyone's back-up gf.-The truth. If it hurts him, Oh well, he deserves it. What he did was stupid. If he really 'loves' you than he would have never asked your friend out. Sounds to me like he's just tired of being single-and nobody want's him. LoL.


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Lol....i think its true...specially the nobody wants him part...he is very ...complex...to say it nicely..thankyou this is what I wanted to hear...




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