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hi im 16 nearly 17 and this lad who i like said he liked me and it was great until 1 day when he stood me up and didnt let me know he wasnt going to show up
it was great before that we were like together(we wasnt but he told his mates we was) we slept together a few times and he wanted to see me every day
but now i just feel like ive been used coz we havent spoke for ages and i still really like him
i know he has commitment issues because one of his exes cheated on him with his best mate do you think that has something to do with it?
or was he just using me for sex? does anyone no? plzzzzz help (link)
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First of all, is the guy much older than you? if he is then he should be more mature than the whole standing you up and not contacting you senario.
If he isn't then he's got alot of growing up to do.
YOu are worth the attention and commitment from any partners, or potential partners. They should respect and value you.
If you feel like you have been used for sex then go with your ituition. Believe it or not, us women are very intouch with our intuitions even though we might not know.
Don't believe what he says to his mates, believe what YOU see with his actions.
Commitment issues are just an excuse for a guy, if they find a girl that they are REALLY into, they wouldn't be hesitant for a split second to commit.
Hey, i went through the same issue with my partner.
My advice is, go get yourself somebody who's gonna appreciate and be smittened by you, not for sex but because they truly are into you!
Hope this helped.. GOod luck sweety!
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