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Member Since: November 18, 2007
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Last Update: February 13, 2014
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So...I have this problem with jealousy...it's not a healthy amount either. If someone gets something I want, I get jealous. It's as simple as that. I've tried everything to get rid of it. Like, noticing the things I have right now, cherish everyone for their differences...all that stuff. But it doesn't work. I get obsessed with it and end up feeling worthless and like I have nothing. Any ideas...? (link)
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i don't think this is that unhealthy to be honest. if you were jealous about who you are dating than maybe. but you just seem highly competitive. it's a survival aid. it will give you drive to be better. it's not bad to want on a team or want to start or want the promotion at work. when this stuff happens though, you have to ask if they are as desserving. i think if you realize that they are deserving than it won't be as bad. i hope you do enjoy the successes you have though. you will have times of disappointment even if most things go your way. but i do think from how you put things that this isn't as unhealthy as you believe.
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Thank you! I know this was a while ago, but you really, REALLY helped me, and I wanted you to know!
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