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Q: I just found out that my ex boyfriend wants to get back with me. Im so confused becasue my mum doesnt agree with me getting back with him and my dad absolutely wants to kill him because he hurt me before. He dumped me for a girl id known for about a week and was his ex girlfriend. The thing is for some weird reason i do still like him a lot and somehow i have forgave him. It all started off on a rocky patch anyway because of the age difference. We started going out when he was 15 and i was 12, then 3 months later he turned 16 and i stayed twelve. I did turn thirteen two months after that but on my birthday he left me. I dont get it. He says he always thinks of me and that he has had 3 sex dreams about me in the past week alone!!!!! I am 13 now and he is 16. Yesterday he asked me for a hug and when i huggedd him he pulled me onto the sofa so that i was laying on top of him with my head on his chest and he said that he loved me, i could tell by his voice that he was deadly serious. And I said that i loved him. First of all i would like to ask if you have nay advice on getting back with him. Yes or no? And please please please can you give me some advice on how to tell my mum and dad without them going mad and saying that im not going to see him. I want to put it across as im going out with him mum but can you please let me get on with it and be by my side in case it goes wrong because that is all i want, i dont want a lecture. At one point he did mean a lot to me and im trying to make it work again. Please help.
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okay. so heres the part your gonna hate to hear. i cant make that decision for you. and neither can your mom and dad. the thing you have to remember is that people make mistakes, and nobody is perfect. if you can tell that this guy really cares a lot about you, then maybe hes worth another try. but be aware of being played. if you decided to get back together with him, be careful not to move to fast, take things slow, make shure he really loves you as much as he says he does. as far as your mom and dad. they may not be happy with it, but you need to sit down with them and tell them how much you care for him, and that you want their support even though they dont agree. the worst possible thing you can do is argue with them. if they say something like "he's a bad guy" or w/e dont get loud just say somelike "he made a mistake." ya kno? i hope i helped. good luck.
-jessicamarie.
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I just your average teen age girl, except i've gone through a lot of hardships that no one should go through, much less a teenager. I have a lot of experience with giving advice and love to do it. I am spirited and willful. I would love to help anyone i can no matter what the situation. I hate when people judge others, and make it my goal to not judge others. Everyone has their unique characteristics that should be uplifted and not put to shame.
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Gender: Female Age: 16 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: February 21, 2007 Answers: 62 Last Update: January 27, 2009 Visitors: 4416
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