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Q: soooooo i dated a guy for about 2 years. we broke up but he still talks to me. he basically has been playing games with my head for about 5 months saying all these things, telling me he loves me, then not talking to me for a week, then telling me he doesnt love me, making me want him, what not. i really feel like this is not fair to me at all! idk how he does it, but he just makes me want him sumhow. all i want was to make things the same as they used to be because we had a reallllly good relationship. but for the last few weeks, ive started to get sick of it, i feel like i dont even want him anymore becase ive realized what an asshole he is and whats hes doing to me. so i decided i want to cut it off. so i stopped connection with him and he would call still like once a week, but i wouldnt call or text him, and when we would talk id always be like i dont feel like talking and what not. but then i think he realized that i wasnt on his nuts anymore! and he started calling/texting me more, telling me he wants to see me and hes sorry for what hes done, and ive just kinda brushed it off. i think its MY turn to play the games with him. even if this sounds evil or mean i dont really care. any advice tips to make him hurt & want me?! i want to play games that he played with me.=] yes, it sounds bitchy, but ive been really hurt & its his turn.
i know most people are going to say, "omg, two wrongs don't make a right, blah blah blah" but,
i love this question(:.
some things i did when my ex did that was
- flirt with guys in front of his face.
- whenever he calls or texts you, answer at first and then cut him off when he gets into the conversation and say you have to go.
OR you can do exactly what he did to you.
One day, compliment him, tell him he's amazing or cute or hot. and then the next be like, why are you talking to me? or stuff like that.
or, when you talk to him, only give one word answers that don't help get the conversation going.

hope i helped! (:

thanks =p

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