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I know this make no sense, but I was wondering, why is it that people who have lost so much in life whether it be a parent or somthing can love so deeply and live, but the people who have suffered so little cannot?? If this makes no sense I'm sorry, then just ignore my question. My friends dad committed suicide and I just can't understand how anyone can commit suicide and leave the family behind and not know the damage it has caused. It really gets me when people on this site are asking how to kill themselves, b/c don't you know that suicide temporarily solves the problem by permanently destroying lives?? Gosh, I just don't get it. I want to know what would posess someone to commit suicide, problems are so temporary thats why life is called a roller coaster b/c it has up and downs. I mean how else would we aprreciate the good days if we didn't have bad ones to go with it...
Can someone explain to me, why I can cry my eyes out over someone I don't know committing suicde yet some ppl do it without a second thought???
I just want to say something to him, but I don't know what to say...saying I'm sorry about your dad just seems so limited, I feel there is so much I could do, but where do you even start???
Thank you for reading this. :/ (link)
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i know exactly what you are talking about.
sometimes i just sit there and think about it too.
but there are many reasons why people commit suicides.
usually its and internal conflict that they can never resolve. maybe mentally they are just way too weak and they cant do anything to make the pain go away.
many people feel like their dying anyways and they know their pain affects other peoples lives too.
so when they take their lives away(commit suicide)they feel like they are takin away stress from themselves and everybody around them.
nobody really knows why people kill themselves when life is suppose to be hard.
but all you can do is live YOUR life to the fullest and try not to make the same mistake
this might hurt you because you might feel like you have it so good while your friend's dad just committed suicide.
or maybe it is just the fact that you have a heart and it hurts you.
=]
but dont worry life is worth living so just make sure you dont give up.
hope i helped and if you need more help with anything dont be afraid to talk to me. =]
litt0lkv
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Thanks a bunch for your help. I just feel sad for him, but I can't live my life in fear and sadness, b/c then I'm really not living. I really appreciate your answer. Thank youuuuu :)
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