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Ok i've liked this guy named Zak for a long time. I know him because my best friend lives next to him and he is only a year older(16) than us. But I just went to our homecoming dance and another one of my friends and I connected. His name is Matt. When we would get hot in the gym my best friend and i would go out on the wired steps, with no shoes. She would stand on Zaks feet, so i got a little jealous. So I stated to stand on Matts. I would lose my banlance and he would hold me close. Then when a slow song came on, Zak promised to dance with me, but blew me off. So then Matt comes at of nowhere and askes me to dance. We start iur dancing far away then I wrapped my arms tighter around him and rest my head on his shoulder and close my eyes. Soon I step on to his feet and he's the only one moving. I think I'm falling for him, but I feel bad about Zak. Am I a player? Do I forget about Zak since I've liked him for years? Do I go for Matt. I'm so confused right now!!
I think at this moment all you feel for Matt is lust, maybe because you wanted the attention from Zak but you didn't get it. But whether you should go for Zak or not, I don't really know because if he blew you off, his feelings for you are not quite clear. You aren't a player at all, does Zak know about your feelings? If not, there is no reason why you shouldn't give Matt a chance, because even if it just lust, you won't be hurting anyone in the process!! Good luck with this :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for clearing this up for me. I think I understand not that it is lust and Matt and I have been talking since then so I hope it turns to the plus side. And Zak does know that I like him, he probably just doesn't like me. Oh well!