Member Since: September 13, 2008
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Last Update: September 13, 2008
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okay, well, my friend is so annoying!! she loves herself so much... and i don't know what to do... i told her that she needs to stop, but she just thought i was joking...
another thing that is really pissing me off lately is that, well i've already asked a question about this but, anyway, well she went to a band camp and got with this guy, even though she had a nearly boyfriend at home but i accidently told her nearly boyfriend, and now she keeps bringing it up and making me feel bad but am i right in saying that if she really cared about the guy at home she wouldn't of gone with the one at band camp would she? (link)
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Don't feel like you've been a bad mate, because from my perspective you sound like a respectful friend.
If she's full of herself, she needs telling, and you've only told her for her own good, to make her a better person. Sure she laughed it off, but who takes comments like that lightly? Hopefully she takes it into account and changes a little.
The fact him and the 'nearly boyfriend' weren't properly together probably means in her eyes it was okay, seeing as she was single.
She does sound confused with what and who she wants, I think we've all been/will be in that position at some point in life. But it's not right to lead one on and have a random fling. The guy must be so hurt.
All I can suggest is leaving her to it and hopefully she'll learn. You've tried to be a good friend, and if she is annoying, then try and distance yourself away from her, and then she may realise her behaviour is pushing others away.
Hope that helps :)
Xo
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