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Ok, you answered my question about the guy i like, and how i can start being friends with him and stuff like that. Well..i liked your advice so i wanted to fill you in on some other stuff that has been going on. Also, i "talked" to him for about a week over the summer. Well, he is one of those guys who hug a lot of girls and flirt with a lot of girls. My friend has that personality that is really flirty and at first i thought she was flirting with him and now she gets so mad when people say that she is flirting with him so i don't really bring it up. Well, since she is flirty and he is flirty, they both kind of flirt together. I know he is a big flirt but he always goes and talks to her and sits by her whenever he gets the chance. She talks to him back because she told me and all my friends that they were best friends and he tells her secrets that he dosen't tell anyone else. She was like "I'm not telling anyone the secrets he tells me and the girls that he likes...etc." They are always talking and around eachother. I thought that since i was one of her best friends that she would tell me who he likes because she knows i like him. It makes me sorta jealous. I confronted her about it and she said she dosen't like him except for a like a brother. (Looks to me like she really likes talking and hanging out with her "brother"). This girl in my class asked him if he liked her and he said "Um....(long pause!) We are just really good friends." He is popular around the school and he dosen't just pick anybody to be his best friend (thats a girl.).He must really like her if he considers her as his best friend. Also, i just want to be in her position where they are really good friends and talk about everything. I want to but do you think because he knows i like him, he's not?? He also knows that i have never kissed a guy and i am 15 so do you think that that might have something to do with it? What should i do?

I don't think the fact that you've never kissed a guy would really matter. Well, maybe he likes your friend and finds it awkward that you like him and he's trying to be nice and ignore it, which just saying it doesnt sound to nice but Thats how guys think. [[CONFUSING I KNOWW]]
But if you really cant be friends with him, how do you expect to date him? Thats what I don't get. Sorry just wondering...
I really wanna be able to help.
Heres my Myspace-- http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=41915905
And My AIM- xLimewireJunkiex

Im fourteen and female not some freaky 40yo living in his parents basement ;]]. Thought you might wanna know. Im going through a similar issue and if you can make it through then I might be able to-to. hah if that makes sence.

You never know he really could like your friend.
And then again you never know she could like him to and get mad because shes a really good friend and doesnt wanna hurt your feelings. You gotta think of both sides. Maybe you gotta think this whole liking him through... I know you can't just shut the feelings off but i donno.

Hmm. Maybe if I heard more of the story because I have the habit of exagerating-- like was it a REALLY REALLY long awkward silence, or a this isn't the time to be duscussing this silence.
Theres diffrences. x]

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(Rating: 2) sorry but this really dosen't help. The pause was just a pause. thats all.
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