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Q: My boyfriend seems to think that when he calls other girls hot it impresses me.
Well it doesnt, and honestly, it's really pissing me off.
Once or twice is some-what acceptable, but i'm talking about almost every day!
It's so awkward for me because i just stand there and look like a total idiot.
I mean, what am i supposed to say ...?
"Cool" ??
yeah right, so the other day i talked to him about it, and he said that's the last time i'll ever hear it from his mouth.
A few days pass and he was really keeping his word.
Then the other day we were talking about lindsay lohan and he was like
"Im not even gunna say it!"
and i was like
"what?"
"that shes hot."
and i was like "YOU JUST DID!"
things like that.

another thing he does is point out EVERY SINGLE pretty girl in the mall he says he knows and say
"I used to like her"
One time i busted him because we go to different schools
and he was like "I used to like her"
and it turns out the girl he pointed to
went to MY school.
so i said "how do you know her?"
and he was like "she goes to my school"
and then she comes over and says
"Hey!" to me.
not even acknowledging him!
and he never spoke about since then.
he does it to impress me and i know it.
or he'll spot a grouup of other pretty girls and tell me he knows him.
I have no idea what to do anymore!
im lost.
what do i do?
okay. first breath.
i know how you feel.
but what you should honestly do.
is blow him off.
if he says it.
playfully smack him and make him think that you dont care.
hes just trying to get a rise out of you.
remember though. he's with you, not them.
and the whole lindsey lohan thing.
okay. maybe he thinks shes hot...but i can almost 100% ensure you that he will never be with her nor have the chance.
if he keeps it up.
give him the same treatment.
tell him the guys that you think are hot.
or how you "used to like them".
he may continue to do it, but i bet he'll be thinkin the thoughts that you are too.

oh yea. the most important fact.
HE'S A DUDE. dudes. dont think.
at least not with the head thats on their shoulders. ;)

good luck.


-jessicamarie.

thanks(:

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jessicamarie
I just your average teen age girl, except i've gone through a lot of hardships that no one should go through, much less a teenager. I have a lot of experience with giving advice and love to do it. I am spirited and willful. I would love to help anyone i can no matter what the situation. I hate when people judge others, and make it my goal to not judge others. Everyone has their unique characteristics that should be uplifted and not put to shame.

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