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Ok, well like he has told people before he likes me, and like i said i know i like him i just cant figure out why. Like he isnt cute nd he can be a real jerk sometimes, but its so cute how he gets jealous and how he smiles everytime he sees me. And how he tries to make me happy if im sad. And he kissed my neck before and i thought i was going to i dont know what :) and he acts like hes going to bite me playfully to get me laughing, he defends me. But i cant tell WHY i like him. Lke if someone says why do you like him? i just stand there like a retard because i fully cannot answer the question because it is like hard to explain. I want you to help me figure out why i like him.

And i have another question, i dont know how true this is because i have never heard it...
Someone told me that if a guy kisses your neck and you enjoy it, that its love...

first of all, just cause a girl enjoys it when a random guy kisses her neck doesn't mean she loves him. i'm sorry but no, it doesn't work like that. you know when you're in true love when you don't need to lie or hide yourself from him and when you can talk and you feel happy when you see him. you can have the longest day and just seeing him, talking to him helps. you're not in love. being in love happens once, MAYBE twice if you're lucky in a lifetime. so i mean. your husband is your true love.

does it really matter if you know exactly why you like him or not? who cares if you don't? so what, you can't respond adequately when someone asks, "why do you like him?' just be honest & say, "i don't know exactly. i like the way he makes me feel." that's it. just being around him, seeing him (even if he's not the hottest guy ever) makes you happy and you enjoy his company. don't kill yourself over trying to figure out why you like him. it's better than being able to say, "he's hot." and that's why you like him. like that's dumb. so be thankful, actually

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