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Im fifteen, female. Just got held back for various health reasons so Im in the ninth grade again.
Ive had three boyfriends; one in elementary school and two in middle. They all either deny it, ignore me, or dont say it counts. Whatever. But Ive never kissed a guy!
Lottts of people say Im just absolutely adorable and I have to agree :]
im sooperpetite, smiley, give great hugs. But I feel like a total wallflower. Probably am.
Anyways. Im not totally shallow but I can be stereotypical and guys have asked me out,just not great looking ones.
Well when I get my next boyfriend, Im afraid to kiss him. I want it to be both of our firsts just for that extra little spark I guess :]
But I also want a greaaat guy thats just as simple as I am.
Is there such a boy as that? At all? Do you think Im being too picky? Gosh. Opinions, please.

no, sweetheart. every girl wants to meet her prince and you're definitely not being too picky. picky is, "i want him to be 5'4" with hazel eyes and blonde hair and he has to wear a lot of abercrombie and he has to have dimples..."

there is a boy for every girl out there, and so yes there is a boy like that :) but you have to remember that the guys you end up getting will never be PERFECTLY as you imagined. just be open-minded but keep your standards high

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