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Hey I'm 18 and I met a guy through a site that is meant for Christian's to talk and meet to get to know more Christian's in their area...
Well, I met this guy and he seems to be really nice so far. He wanted to hang out and go to a younth group together or something and I normally would never want to meet people online, ever, but it's SUPPOSED to be safe since it's Christian based site it's not a dating site or anything it's meant more for friends really...
He even said I could bring my Mom or a friend or family member and we'd definitely, obviously, be in a public place if we did...
Now I'm 18 so I wouldn't bring my Mom but I would definitely probably bring a friend or something... But, I have been hurt really really hurt badly in the past by guys and I'm not sure if this guy is for real?
He said he's 26 which would make him like 7 years older than I am.... But like when I looked on his myspace and stuff all of his friends (which weren't many) are all 18-22 at the oldest... And he told me he was out of school but I read a comment on his myspace of someone needing to ask a questions before their test? So, if he's out of school, why is he taking a test and why does the person need to get his notes or ask questions or whatever? He said he isn't working right now because he is leaving for a military medical thing in Janurary but that he'll still be able to talk...
What do you guys think of this situation? I wasn't and I'm not looking for a relationship so it's not so much that but as a friend do you think that's okay? Do you think he's being shady and maybe just hangs out with yonger people? If so id that creepy? Any extra input is fine but please don't be rude I'm asking for advice because I really am not sure, I've never been in this situation before, so there is no need to be mean please. I will rate and give feedback. (link)
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Hi. I'm Sarah.
I think that you shouldn't meet him because it's more likely a trap. But if you do which I don't recommend, but he might be fine because it's a christian site, but anyway if you do meet him bring a friend. And make sure to tell him you're not in for a relationship just yet... Please give my feed back if you like my advice,
Sarah
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Rating: 4
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Thank you I do appreciate the input. I definitely intended on meeting in a public place and bringing a family member or friends if I decided to meet up with him. But I will definitely make sure I let him know I'm not looking for anything more then friends. =) Thanks
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