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So it seems like latley, instead of worrying about school ( which i am.) I'm worrying about my Ex-BFF.

We drifted apart this summer.
Like; No talking at ALL- which i really dont know what happened..

Maggie (exbff) and me alllways hung out. We were such good friends. Lets say we werrre attached by the shoulders.

But, this summer; I kind of got fed up with her. How much she changed. I can't stand it, I meen I see her on myspace and I hear about her from my other bestfriend ( who hangs out with maggie more then I do. ALOT MORE) and I get ... annoyed? In a way I want to be still friends with her, but then I see her and I'm like " UGH!" . I dont know it's so confusing! And now that school is going to start, I really dont know what to do. I'm mad because we drifted apart, and I'm mad at her for that. I meen she goes across the street to my other friends house, and never comes and sees what I'm up to?


okay so, yeah I dont know exactly what I'm feeling- that's where the confusing part comes in.

But I need help with how to deal with it in school. How much shes changed with her new "bff" and how to show her that I've been GREAT without her, instead of talking about the stupid Old times. you know what I meen? even though I have been great.

But Not seeing her this summer took a whole load off; lets just say I was STRESS FREE! ahha.
So yeah- things do happen for a reason; I became much better friends with my other friends who I hang out with mostly everyday..

Now to deal with it in school 24/7; help?

Holy motherfreaking crap, this is EXACTLY the same situation I'm in! Pretty much word-for-word!

My best friend and I used to be so close, and this summer we never talked... she even forgot my birthday... she changed a lot. Now she hangs out with my other best friend, who tells me stuff about what she's been up to.

I felt stress free too! And now I've found better friends.

Okay, so here's what I've been doing with my situation lately. I've convinced myself this year that I really want to get good grades and not stress about my exbff. So, I'm trying to spend more time with my other friends and just realize that she and I drifted apart and that she is not putting any effort into our friendship. So far it's been great. She hangs out with her friends, and I hang out with mine. She has changed so much that it's not good for me to be around her, honestly. She's become a bad influence.

This school year I have pretty much every single class with her and my other best friend who she hangs out with all the time. I'm going to be nice to her, but that doesn't mean we have to hang out after school. I'm still going to have conversations with her about what I did over the weekend, but my weekends will not include hanging out with or thinking about her. Also, she has definitely realized that I have better friends because I am with them pretty much all the time. She knows that I'm upset with her... and that things have changed. She and her new best friend are so weird to be around now... so I just concentrate on school and my other friends.

All the crap she's done to me in the past... best friends don't do that to each other. So obviously we were probably never best friends and I shouldn't feel obligated to put up with her anymore.

I really hope I've helped you a little bit. Honestly, I'm still confused about my situation too, so please let me know how your situation works out! I would really appreciate it.

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(Rating: 5) oh my god! FINALLY someone knows what I'm going through! ahhh! thank you soooo muchh! I'll keep you updated.
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