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Q: 15/m
I'm about to go into my sophomore year in highschool (in 2 days) and I'm 15 years old. I haven't ever had a girlfriend in my life. People call me pathetic and I get made fun of and taunted because of it. I used to be picked on a lot and such by people. I recently got into Martial Arts classes and I'm joining a JROTC program (an army reserve program) to help out with my leadership abilities some. There's this girl names Rachael who's one of my best friends. She's also in JROTC and is similar to me in almost every way. The reason I haven't been with anyone is because I haven't found anyone willing to hold a relationship nor have I found someone into everything I am....I've never felt this way about anyone, and I think I love her. We've been friends since Freshman year and I really like her....but I don't have any clue as to what to do about it. I'm not shy or anything, but I just don't want my heart broken.
Advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!
Brandon
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Well, you really shouldn't worry about what people think. I was home school until college and so I know what it's like to not have a whole ton of relationships and to see other people having them. You have plenty of time, ignore them. =)
It's great that you seem so sweet and to have such strong feelings for this girl, and I would suggest telling her how you feel, if you've known her a long time and talk a lot. But, be careful... You are young and it's not very common that your going to spend the rest of you life with the first girlfriend you have. I'm not trying sound all "mom-ish" on you I just don't want you to be fooled either. That's what giving advice is about sometimes. =)
Having your heart broken is a part of life though, and you have to understand that. But don't be afraid to live life (not saying that you are I'm just putting this out there)...
Now, I'm not saying it can't happen. There have been people out there that have married and stayed with their high school sweethearts and have married and stayed with the first person they were ever with... It's just not very common.
Talk to her about your feelings and see where things go, enjoy every moment of everything that happens, good and bad. And if things for whatever reason don't work out (even though I hope they do.) Be okay with that and allow yourself to feel whatever your going to feel until you meet someone else just as cool or even better then this girl. =)
Good luck!! And I hope this helped a little. Sorry if it wasn't what you asked. =)
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Awesome! Thanks for the advice! I'm honestly surprised that I got this much help from people! I really appreciate you taking the time to help me out!
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Hey! =) I really love my life and the things and people in it. I love fashion, make-up, going out, dancing, teaching dance, and being with my friends and family. I feel very blessed for the things I have. It took me a while to get to this point though and I know that growing up, and even people my age, you need advice about certain things every now and then. I've always had people give me advice about things and I've been able to use their advice through my own experience and mistakes and come up with some of my own things. And now I'm the one always helping my friends out. I always have new ideas that I love to share. And well, I can't promise I'll always be able to help or give you the answer you're looking for but, I'll definitely do my best. =)
Also, whether you ask me a question in my inbox or I answer one alone I normally ALWAYS add in my experiences because for me, I like to know when people can relate and aren't just guessing, it's easier when someone has actually been through it. And I'm not going to do any favors by lying, so I am ALWAYS going to be honest. But keep in mind just becasue of my experience and my honesty does not mean I am always right and I understand that. Feedback is appreciated to know what I can work on with certain answers, not demanded.
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Gender: Female Member Since: June 22, 2008 Answers: 77 Last Update: July 18, 2009 Visitors: 7001
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