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heyy. im lori and im 16. i am currently in senior high school but i can give really good advice if i know what im doing. feel free to ask me anything: love life, sex, friendship, school (im a straigt A student btw), health, music (i play guitar, piano, violin, and i love to sing), etc. hope to help you guys out! :p
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Hey guys, my question is, okay so I always tend to fall for the wrong guy, like the guy who isn't right for me. I went out with two different guys, both are nice, but theres just no chemistry, for me anyways. I liked this guy, who has been around with every single girl, I mean seriously, so it just kills me that I can waste four months liking a jackass like that, but not like other guys who are right for me. Ugh, I'm only 17 so I know I have time ahead of me, I'm just embarassed b/c my friends, are able to get any guys they want, with me I lack experience, to be completely honest. Its like I'm afraid to fall in love. I'm just really afraid of being alone forever :(
So what I'm asking is, why am I so afraid to fall in love, and why can't I fall for the right guy? ugh, is there something wrong with me?
Thanks, I know this was a very unoriginal, ridiculous question, but I appreciate the help!
it's ok to fall for the wrong guy and its very VERY normal, ridiculously normal. im pretty sure that your friends are probably with the wrong guys. i mean, they're not gonna marry the guys that they're with are they? thats not likely. see the dating game is all about trying things out. if this guy is wrong, try another guy, and so forth. so it takes a long time to find the most perfect guy. few people actually marry the first person they date (altho my parents were one of them. haha). so dont be afraid to fall in love. and i can practically guarentee you that you wont end up alone. just try diferent guys out. and trust me, its COMPLETELY normal.
lori 16/f
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for answering my question! I know you're right that it is normal and all. I guess I just want to rush love, you know, and I just can't. Ugh. Oh well, thanks again!