Hi, Im Sarah and Im 24 and Im married to a wonderful man! Together we have 3 kids together the first one was an "accident" as I was still in high school when I was 17. But she is now 7 and her name is Ashley Marie. Then I have a little boy who is 11 months and his name is Corey Logan. Then I am expecting the third in about a month!!! She is suppost to be a girl so her name will be Kelsey Anne. I graduated college from The University of Tennasee. I am a gymnastics coach and own 3 gyms. Then as a side job I train horses for all events. I got married on May 21, 2007!!! If you ever need help I can answer most any question... I am a been there done that type of person! I've learned from alot of mistakes too.
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My parents are divorced and my mum is remarried, my stepdad recently said some terrible things to be. What happened was; my mum and stepdad had an argument, when my mum went upstairs she left me and my brother in the firing line of his anger. I have recently seen a councellour for other reasons, and he said some hurtful things like; Everything that ever goes wrong in this family is your (me and my brothers) fault, then everytime your mum gets upset its your(me) fault! and "councelling at your age" Deal with it!"
Know I can't even look him in the eye and I got really upset at school yesterday and It is really getting to me, I want some advice on how to get over it. Thanks for your time! (link)
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If you are still seeing your counsler than you might want to talk to them about it they may be able to help you as well. Have you talked to your mom? I think that would be the first major step in resloving this maybe like sit down and talk to her when your stepdad is not around, then later the three of you sit down and talk about it. Nothing is ever solly one persons fault, do not let the things he has said to you hurt your self condfidence or anything like that. Also if these things are only being said in an argument than he most likley doesn't mean it.... he is just saying it because he is angry. Just remember to respect him because your mom loves him, and you do not have to like him but you need to try and give him a chance.
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