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ok so ive had sex with this guy only 2 times.. but he can't cum... he told me he barley ever masturbates and when we have sex he just can't cum he swears its not me or anything im doing thats stopping him he said that it feels good and he gets close but can't and he wont really talk to me about it other then that so i don't know whats wrong, does anyone have an idea what might be wrong? and some tips on how to get him to cum would be gooooood to ;] (link)
Alright I've had this problem with several guys and NOTHING is wrong with them. And don't worry, nothing is wrong with you either. It's not because he isn't turned on by you, or doesnt find you sexy, it's strictly psychological.

Girls like guys that last long right?(have long lasting erections)Well, after holding it inf or a certain amount of time, guys have a diffictulty of getting it back out without masturbating.

What I'd suggest doing is ask him to masturbate infront of you, then TAKE NOTE OF WHAT HE DOES, then try and perfect his technique. That way, if he still can't cum, you just finish with your hand. That way, you're doing it instead of him.

Another really important thing is his grip on his penis while he masturbates. If his grip is tight, it won't be the same as the feeling inside you. Ask him to loosen his grip while he masturbates, that might help a LOT.
Have fun;)


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thanks the only problem is he doesnt masturbate lol




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