Hi! I am only 13 but i have been through alot in my life soooo i know alot for my age. I love to give AND get advice and people say i am really got at them BOTH =). You can ask me questions about ANYTHING and i will do my best to answer them. And remember questions in my inbox get answered FIRST!!!! Also i HATE when people dont leave feedback. I really want to know if i helped,i didnt,or anything in between!!!!! Lots of love, Nay~Nay
Gender: Female
Location: US
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Age: 13
Member Since: June 10, 2008
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Last Update: July 18, 2008
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ok so ill apologize now for how long it could get but idk what to do anymore. me and my friends Abby and Claire, weve all been best friends for about 4 years now. and then all of a sudden Claire wont talk to me and Abby.
how we thought it happened was because Claire had her own group of friends in her sporting event, soccor. and me and Abby wanted to try it and try out because we have a really small school so there really isnt much of a tryout. so we were going to practise over summer. well turns out Claire never wanted us to be on the team with her for some reason, even though weve been so supportive of all her sports shes ever done
Claire has always been a girl who if she can get someone to laugh then she does anything and everything, most of the time things shed get soo mad at if we did them to her. so me and Abby kinda talked to her about this, and we were really nice about it too.
then claire after that just stopped talking to us and now we all live pretty close so we meet up and hang out almost everyday. but we havent heard much of claire all summer. she said that we leave her alot when we hang out but the truth is, its always me or Abby the ones feeling left out, bc claire always seems to find a way to be the center of attention.
well we have another good friend who doesnt go to our school anymore her names Shelly and i guess her and Claire have been hanging out alot. Claire has now turned Shelly against us by i guess trash talking to everyone.
we dont know what to do because we miss her so much. this may seem like a lame situation but it really is bigger than it seems, and any advice would really help.
also in august me Abby and Claire were suppose to go to a concert and we have the tickets and everything but if Claire doesnt wanna go we also dont know what to do about that.
thank you so much for you help!! (link)
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It sounds like Clair is REALLY not 2 good of a friend. If i where in your situation,i would talk to her one last time. Ask her why she is acting like that. Why she trash talks people. Are you going to go to the concert or not? When she answerers these questions i think you and your friend can tell if she is REALLY worth keeping. And about the concert,if you end up not working things out,try to find another friend to take to the concert.Also,make new friends,not to replace her but to have more loyal friends instead of just 2 of you. Maybe join some type of team. I really hope i helped and GOOD LUCK =) btw PLEASE leave feedback so i will know if i helped you =)
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thank so much for your advice and your right. though we have talked to her and what not and she really never responded. and your right she hasnt been the best of friends to us. and the good thing is is that we do have tons of other friends but its just been like us three who have been the closest. so yea you reallly did help and about the concert ill try to do what you said. thank youu!
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