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Gina. 19 years old. Gamer. My cars' name is Dimitri. I am so in love with my boyfriend. I have a job and go to college. It's a lot to handle but I am so prepared to do more.
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Ok well, I've been in an internet relationship with this guy for 13 months now.
He's 17.
At first, I REALLY REALLY liked him.
But now I like...log on my MySpace SUPER quick so I don't have to like, talk to him or anything.
It's been like that for about 4 months now.
I'm with my ex boyfriend again and he doesnt know.
I'm trying to think of a way I can tell him its OVER without hurting him too bad.
He REALLY loves me alot.
But I don't really cares what he doesnt or whats happends to him now.
Thats pretty harsh but whatever.
I used to live in NJ.
He lives on Oklohoma[sp?]
I moved to Cali about 4 months ago.
Now we're even father apart.
He's always saying he's gonna come up for Thanksgiving this year so we can meet in person.
I'm always faking that I'm happy and being all like "Omg I can't wait. Love you (link)
It wasn't that long...lol.
Well I suppose that ill tell you my story, i dont know if it will help much.
May 25th, 2007. -I met some guy I met online, probably the worse mistake i've ever made. We dated, it was pretty rocky actually, (ex-i broke up with him one week, he the next) and that lasted for like, 3 months, then i got tired of it, and he(well call him ryan..) knew i was done...He cried, a lot.. But basically, i said " Listen, Ryan, I cant be with you anymore...I just dont feel the same way as when i first met you and started talking to you..I cant be with you.. Im sorry" And he cried. He was standing in front of me crying..Theres not really much i can tell you more. When i got home that day i cried, because I didnt want to hurt him but i did, and its as simple as that. Short, sweet, and honest.

I know you dont want to hurt him, but you can't sugar coat it...It will make them more hurt, probably. I wouldnt tell him about your current boyfriend, either...But just say something like "Long distance relationships dont work for me....sorry" **Make sure you add a little more to that, say your true feelings.


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Thanks. You helped quite a bit =D And I'll def. add you




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