I'm not very into making an elaborate profile. So that's why my profiles nothing :)
Well my names Matt, im 15 live in US. (My now ex) girlfriend always talked about going on advicenators and i thought id check it out and from my feed back i seem good at it =)
So just drop me a question whenever you want I'll answer it to the best of my ability.
I specialize in relationship problems, weather it's your bf/gf, best friend, argue with parents ect..
I'm also pretty knowledgeable about girl issues (ex gf lol) so I can answer those too.
Gender: Male
Location: Ohio
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
Member Since: June 27, 2008
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Last Update: September 15, 2009
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Hey man. So yea i talked to my girlfriend, and she admited that she is,and she was waitng to tell me cause she didnt really believe it herself. Wow im so scared i dont know what to do. Shes coming over tongiht and were going to discuss our options. I think shes gonna wanna keep it. But i dont think that would be best for us right now. So idk. (link)
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I know excately what your saying. If my gf got pregnant i know shed never want an abortion and i would problly lean more toward that. But physically her bodys incapable of having one, she would die.
But enough of me.
Personally at your age i dont think you should have it. It would dominate your lives, and you would end up resenting the baby itself because it ruined what you could have done in life. You would have to go from playing sports hanging out with your buds, staying up late at night and partying ect... to making sure you can support the kid with a job, and babysitting and all the parenting things. I think you should tell her how life changing it actually is. Tell her to think of what it will do to her life. Getting up at 4 A.M. because the babies crying feeding it breast feeding ect..
And lastly and worst of all what happens if one of you decided to break up with the other. She would have to live with the baby for the rest of her life.
It's just a baby at this age has too many complications and too easily fallen out of love because youve only seen 1% of the world. You might want different things out of life.
Tell me how things go
Well i hope it helped.
~InsaneChildz~
15/m
Hey im just checking up on how it went. Tell me how it went and what you two decided
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Damn man your good at this lol. And sorry to hear about your girlfriend not being able to have kids. But yea Your exactly right i agree with everything you said, its just like ahh idk. Ill let you know how it goes tongiht.
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