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Okay. My first boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks now. We are both 14. While on the phone one day he told me he loved me. He's told me that a few times already now. The last time I felt guilty so I said "I love you too." But I've been thinking and while I think he's very amazing and I couldn't be happier going out with him, love is a strong emotion and I want to be sure it's love. There's nothing wrong with him or our realtionship I just don't know if I'm ready yet. Do you think it's love and I should tell him I love him? (link)
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If you don't love him just yet, then don't say it. If you feel guilty about not saying it back then you could say "I'd rather not say I love you, unless I really feel it" And I doubt at a few weeks, you feel it yet. Or you could just say you're not ready for y'alls relationship to be that serious just quite yet. Ask him to give you time to start to grow onto him more.
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