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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
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Advice
My ex boyfriend moved to Sweden for two years, and we've talked on msn every day and stuff, and now he's moved back to our town.
I was so fucking happy when he called me and said ''I'm back in town, let's meet at Starbucks at 12''
So I go there to meet him, and I didn't see him anywhere.
I look around and there's a guy waving at me.
And I did a double take.
Before he left, he had blonde hair, messy, some piercings, and gauged ears.
Now, he has black long hair, more piercings and something that makes me want to cry, he's gauged his center lip piering to a 00g
( like this guy's lip:
http://www.bmezine.com/pierce/05-lips/A80502/high/npqe-rafa-e-dessa-9829.jpg)
Meanwhile I've had some boyfriends, and he's had some girlfriends, but I wanted to start dating him again.
But now...I feel so unattracted to him :(
I mean, I can't even kiss him. And he talks all weird.
And he's changed too. He's obsessed with gauging his lip now, and he thinks I should gauge my lip too.
What do I do now?
I still love him, but I feel like I love him as a friend, and he wants to get back together.
Help?
People change.
That's something important that you are going to have to accept in life.
Is it even possible to kiss someone with that form of a piercing? I hope to God you choose NOT to gauge your lip, because that is incredibly unattractive. How anyone can think that looks good is beyond me. You should be honest with him though. Tell him you would love to be friends, but as far as having a relationship again, you don't see it happening any time soon. Hopefully he will understand.
I was rated a <--fbscore--> ♥
(Rating: 5) I have no interest in gauging any piercings :)
The only thing I ''gauge'' is my lobe piercing which is between 15ga and 14ga
:P
I find his lip absolutely disgusting.
I'm not sure why he would do anything like that, and even if he was willing to take it out for me, it wouldn't grow back. He'd have to get surgery :\