Guys always seem to want what they can't have.

Maybe the reason they are so attracted to her is because she ISN'T a good friend.

She probably acts like she doesn't care at all, and for some reason or another, guys just like that.

My advice, is to just stop trying, the more guys have to chase girls the more they like it, and if they don't chase after you, honestly, why would you want them around anyway? They obviously aren't worth it you know?

Don't ask me why but my experience with guys and what I've seen my friends go through. Guys LOVE when girls play hard to get.

Especially the ones you are describing.

When a girl acts like she doesn't care (probably like the one your talking about) guys just eat that up and want to be around them all the time.

Or, it's because they do only see you as a friend and just think she'd be a good hook up.

Anyway, I guess the only thing I can think of with the information you've given me is to act like you don't care, like you didn't even notice that they talk to that other girl more.

Make them come to you, but don't be mean to them at all. Just don't be the "good friend" anymore that is always there and stuff and see what happens.

One of two things, either they won't talk to you at all anymore and they suck and are jerks. Or they will be just as attracted to you as you see them being attracted to this "gorgeous" girl.

(And I asked one of my guy friends and he said the same thing, when a girl is just a friend or even if a girl wants to be more, guys tend to be more attracted to the ones that act like they don't care and guys don't appreciate the ones that are always there even though they should.)

Now keep in mind that not ALL guys are like this, so please who ever reads this don't get offended. I'm just guessing by what she's saying that those are the types of guys she's dealing with.

Hope this helps.

Thank you, it helped alot, It helped me realise more about what im doing and what i should be doing, im really going to follow your advice, thank you!! Keep giving out great advice :)

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