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Q: 16/m

ok so i broke up with my girlfriend two nights ago


so i've been going out with this girl for a year and 3 months or so. i loved her very much. very, very much, and i still care very much about her, but i just wasn't happy anymore. i wasn't having fun anymore with her. all our conversations were becoming nothing other than "i love you's" and talking about sex and stuff (we never had it. . . got kind of close a couple times). we fought a lot recently, particularly about how much we saw each other (at least once a week) and that i was putting my music (i'm in a band) before her (which shouldn't happen apparently), and it was starting to stress me out way too much. i got little sleep and worried about it a lot. . .

and then i couldn't do it anymore.


i still really care a lot about her, and in the back of my mind i feel like i made a really big mistake. . . but the rest of me thinks it's for the better.

could anyone help me out here?


thanks
i know what you mean about this feeling.
because i am not you, i cant tell you that you made the right or wrong decision and no one else can either.
but if you still love her. then maybe yall can find a way to replenish the feelings.
a break from yall can be a good solution, maybe yall just need some time apart to just think.
i hope everything works out.
any other questions just IM me or email me. or send it to my inbox.

-jessicamarie.

thanks a ton

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jessicamarie
I just your average teen age girl, except i've gone through a lot of hardships that no one should go through, much less a teenager. I have a lot of experience with giving advice and love to do it. I am spirited and willful. I would love to help anyone i can no matter what the situation. I hate when people judge others, and make it my goal to not judge others. Everyone has their unique characteristics that should be uplifted and not put to shame.

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