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my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost six months. and i still love him. but he never calls. he never texts. he never emails. and he never offers to hang out. its always me who calls first. and its hard for me. like the other day, i was talking to him, and he's like, "sorry i havent called you in a while, ive been really busy." and i was like, "oh ok, well what have you been up to?" and he goes, "oh nothing." so i was kind of upset that he didnt even come up with an excuse. he always says, "i really love you!" or, "i love you so much" but he doesnt PROVE it. i love him, but i cant keep doing this. i am his first girlfriend, and, even though i cant wait to get over him, i dont want to crush him. so how do i break up with him? i was thinking about doing it over the phone, but is that wrong? i dont think that would be a good way to do it. if i do it in person, what do i say? where should i go to break up with him? i really need help.PLEASE help me!! (link)
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Oh my god. I had the exact same problem this year. He said he loved me but he neverrrr showed that he even cared. So when i was debating weather to break up with him or not I thought if he doesnt care to call me, or text me, or contact me anyway he doesnt care about me as much as i care about him, and uhmm i dont deserve this hah. I know its hard and you made up your mind that your going to do it so good for you !. (: okay. So if i were you i would od it over the phone. Just explain to him how its been bothering you the way hes been acting and you dont want to deal with it anymore. And you truely do love him but you think that its the best thing right now. You love him very much, (and the most Common line haha) I wanna still be friends. Hang out, talk on the phone still. Tell him hes a great guy, but hes probly just to busy. Also dont worry about breakig his heart, This might sound selfish but just worry about yourself through this. (: Now if you dont like the over the phone idea and want to do it in person. I would say just in a park, at your house, his house, A cofee place, anywheres fine. And just say the same thing you would say over the phone. Well i hope i helped. And good for you for standing up for yourself and doing whats right. !. Thats awesome. You should be proud. And GOODLUCK !> Be strong. I know it might be hard but i know you can do it. Okay if you need ANYTHING! else im here just ask. And hopefully everything works out. Let me know how it goes. (:
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thank you SO muchh!! this helps alot =DD
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